Friday, November 21, 2008

The Griswold Effect

Today's order: Grande Non-Fat, No-Whip, Extra-Hot Peppermint White Chocolate Mocha

Has Christmas come to your neighbourhood yet? It's not out in full force in mine, but it's certainly trickling out at a steady pace. Every day more people have their lights up, and there are lots of trees peeking out of living room windows. It started nearly two weeks ago, believe it or not. I saw the first decorated house in my neighbourhood on November 11th.

Is it just me, or does that seem early to you?

When I was a kid, there was no such thing as decorating for Christmas before at least mid-December. And the tree didn't go up until the 23rd, no matter how much we begged. Now, keep in mind that my family always had a real tree. Artificial trees were considered tacky. And they looked it, too, back in the 70's and 80's. Eeek! And, given that the life span of a real tree is fairly limited, it makes sense to hold off on putting up a real tree until very close to Christmas Day. That way your tree is still fresh, still smells beautiful, and your presents aren't showered in needles when you go to open them.

I suspect that my parents also might not have wanted to put up decorations (and especially the tree) too early with kids in the house. I'm sure that we would have been bouncing off the walls once the decorating was done, asking every 3 seconds when Santa was coming. It would be enough to make your head explode, I'm certain.

To the best of my recollection, we were not the odd ones out in our neighbourhood by not decorating for Christmas until quite late in the game. I think the philosophy was different 30 (OMG, am I that old???) years ago. Christmas happened in December, not immediately after Hallowe'en.

It's obvious that part of the influence now is commercialism. The stores start putting out their Christmas wares at least around Hallowe'en, and often even earlier that that. People are susceptible to that influence, and it makes them want to decorate their homes. I totally get it. I found myself humming Christmas tunes and thinking about decorating my tree in October this year!! If you're like me and you like Christmas, it's hard not to want to get into the spirit as soon as the first signs of Christmas pop up in the neighbourhood stores.

But when is the right time to do it? Is there such a thing as too early? Is there an acceptable date for pulling all those red- and green-topped Rubbermaid bins out of storage and dusting off your Christmas CDs? My sister theorizes that Rememberance Day (November 11th) is a mental check-point for a lot of people. That it's considered socially acceptable to begin celebrating the holiday season after you've acknowledged the sacrifice of veterans. Fair enough. That makes sense, I guess.

For me, it's always been December 1st. I think of Christmas as a December holiday, and therefore I have trouble getting my head around decorating any earlier than that. A full month of Christmas decorations, Christmas music, food, etc. seems like it should be enough. But here I am, still in November, feeling like I'm the neighbourhood slacker because I don't have my Christmas decorations up yet. One woman from preschool (who has entirely too much time on her hands, I'm beginning to think) has her entire house decorated and not one, not two, but 3 (!) trees up and decorated since last week!!! It's no wonder I'm feeling behind on my game!

Is this problem strictly Canadian? I'm thinking that maybe the hub-bub around Thanksgiving in the States keeps the elves at bay... is that true? Do Americans wait until after Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas?

Regardless, I think I now have the itch. No, not that kind. Minds out of the gutter, people. I think I'm going to have to dig out those Rubbermaid bins a little earlier this year. Now if I could just scrounge up a few elves to do the work for me...

16 comments:

Mr Lady said...

Typically, yes. Thanksgiving is your mark. You get past that, and you can hit the Christmas stuff with your whole heart.

We have a fake tree (allergies, cheap, lazy) and we put it up after Thanksgiving dinner. We do that because I always host Thanksgiving, and it's fun to have our whole family help decorate the tree. We're doing it on American Thanksgiving now that we're here, too, habits being hard to break and all. :)

Zoeyjane said...

I'm torn on the tree - I want, I have no room; I could squeeze, but no, that's silly...

Either way, I start decorating tomorrow. We've already been watching the movies and reading the Xmas books for WEEKS.

Russ said...

It is not just a Canadian thing. We have several houses already "Griswolded" around our house. Nearly all of the malls had their decorations up on Halloween.

But I am with you, December is when it can start (I can be talked into after Thanksgiving).

Stella said...

Very weird that you posted this. I was planning on writing about this too.

I've been driving around all weekend and each day I see a bit more decorations. Generally, for me, Thanksgiving is the mark. We wait until after Turkey day to decorate. The day after. This year though I'm thinking of putting stuff up early...like today early.

I have to wonder if people are decorating because it makes them feel good in these times of economic hardship and poor gov't. Christmas makes people happy, usually. Decorating could help bring them out of their funk.

Just my thoughts....

the planet of janet said...

not just a canadian thing. the darned christmas stuff is in stores by halloween. gag!

jen said...

Wonderful blog! I love the name. :)

I almost puked when I heard Christmas music on the radio the DAY AFTER HALLOWEEN. I'm just so not in the Holiday spirit this year...it just snuck up on me too fast!

Kimmylyn said...

I put Christmas up the day after Thanksgiving.. I love it.. and if I had my way I would have put it up this weekend, but my husband forbid me..lol..

We still get a real tree, so the decorations that go up are the outside and inside stuff.. But we make a BIG deal of going to pick out the tree..

Anonymous said...

I agree with you 100%. I think December 1st is the perfect time to start with decorations and such. However I find that we start putting the lights on the house a little earlier just because the longer you wait the colder it gets and who wants to be out there in the freezing cold or snow!

Jaina said...

Overall yes, I don't start decorating until the day after Thanksgiving. But boy do I have a hard time waiting. I'm the girl who used to listen to Christmas music in the summer. I LOVE Christmas. Granted, I've been working on Christmas art projects since probably late August/early September. But, in my defense, if I don't start that early, I don't finish. (and the supplies at Michael's no longer exist) I've thrown on my Christmas cd for a few songs here and there for a few minutes over the past couple months. I'm already about half done with my shopping. But I recognize that December is Christmas time, and I decorate as such. Once it hits Thanksgiving (literally, that day) non-stop Christmas music is fair game, don't try to stop me.

BusyDad said...

This is why Nordstrom is the bomb (do they have Nordstrom out there? If not, it's a higher end dept. store). They have a big sign out front that says "We like to take things one Holiday at a time. The next one is Thanksgiving." or something to that effect. Not a single Xmas decoration.

And please. Will you stop fishing my mind out of the gutter? I like it there!

Helen E.M. Wright said...

People down here start in early November. This is the time of year where you realize that houses you thought were condemned are still livable! The more it looks condemned the more decorations they have!

Victoria said...

I have to agree with you: after Thanksgiving, it's like the whole place is force-feeding the Holiday Spirit down your throat.

And it's not just decorations, the eternal battle of plastic vs. real trees, bake early vs. bake later, etc,. It's doing x-mas early and doing it right.

The cookie thing bothers me most because my son's school has a holiday bake sale, you guessed it, this week, a week before December. So, I decided if I have to fake the holiday feeling, I'm getting ready-made cookies. I found a great place, Safeway Bakery, here for all you mommies feeling the bake-fresh pinch:http://www.sharesavvy.ca/cities/vancouver/reviews/521

They cater to kids with allergies, too.

Ho, ho, ho,

Victoria

Amy said...

Your over ambitious acquaintance is going to have 3 decorated tree carcasses and pine needles everywhere in a couple of weeks. You on the other hand will have a fresh smelling beautiful tree.

crunchy said...

We usually wait till about two weeks before..but I think next weekend we may at least do the outside lights...

we get a real tree so we gotta wait till closer for it to stay alive.

Obviously in the minority though as more and more houses are covered in lights already

MommyTime said...

Well, it used to be that Thanksgiving was the mark, since it happened in the last week of November. But this year, the Christmas decorations started appearing in stores alongside Halloween things. Which meant, of course, nary a Thanksgiving-turkey-shaped decorative item anywhere. I find it disturbing to go straight from Halloween to Christmas without a decent interval in between. But then, I'm old fashioned like you, and prefer real trees that still smell nice. Also, I don't have the organizational skills to do it much earlier. Or the patience to keep little fingers off breakable ornaments for more than three weeks. One advantage of a real tree in that regard, though, is that they are seriously pokey, which highly discourages too much meddling from the preschool set!

Anonymous said...

Christmas in my house has always come early. It started when I was about 7, my dad decided to put up the tree around the middle of november because we got a new fake one and the end of the month was going to be a little crazy. It seems however, he's gotten a little carried away. This year the tree was up BEFORE HALLOWEEN.
I refuse to set foot in our front room until December 1st now. And now, because he knows how much it irks me - he will leave it up until Easter, and last year decided to decorate it with pink and yellow easter garlands.
I'm glad I moved out and now have my own little 4ft tree which I can throw up on December 15th or so.